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Buying guide

How to buy used panties
safely

You buy straight from the woman behind the listing: you send her an order request, she confirms it and ships it. Here is how that works, what it costs and how to stay safe.

Illustration: a woman with black and teal hair in a black sweater sitting on a black cube and holding up pink lace panties
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Three steps, from your order to delivery.

  1. 01 · Pick

    Pick a listing.

    Browse listings and sellers. Look at the photos, the price and her reviews.

  2. 02 · Order

    Tap “Order now”.

    Your order goes straight to her, and she confirms it.

  3. 03 · Pay

    Pay when it ships.

    She sends you proof of shipping, a tracking number or a postal receipt. Then you pay her.

How does buying work?

Find a listing you like and send her an order request. She confirms the listed price plus postage and ships it; with Ships first she sends proof of shipping before you pay. She marks it as sold to you, and you confirm when it arrives.

  1. Find her. Every listing links to the seller's profile and to what other buyers wrote about her.
  2. Send her an order request. It is free; questions about size or wear time go in the same message.
  3. Make it yours. She confirms your order, sends proof of shipping, then you pay her.
  4. Plain parcel. Every parcel goes out in plain packaging. When it arrives you confirm it, and then you can review her.

What does it cost you?

Joining and sending order requests are free for buyers. Sellers read and reply with Premium, so an answer is never guaranteed. You pay only the listed price and the postage.

Most used panties on panty.com are listed between $20 and $30; the median asking price is $25, from 1,186 listings.

When do you pay?

After she confirms your order. Sellers with the Ships first badge send proof of shipping, a tracking number or a postal receipt, before you pay.

Never send card details, a password or a code in a message, and never pay with gift cards.

What can you ask for?

Anything the listing leaves open: the cut and the fabric, how long she wore it and how she packs it.

Ask her
  • How long was it worn?
  • Which fabric?
  • Which size?
  • Discreet packaging?

How do you pay safely?

Be careful when someone wants money before she has confirmed an order, pushes you to another app, or asks for card details in the order messages.

  • Payment before the order is confirmed.
  • Pressure to move to another app or messenger.
  • Requests for card details or codes in the order messages.

Report the message or the profile; it goes to the moderation team, and you can block the person at once.

Your privacy

Other members only ever see your nickname. You can block anyone at any time, and nobody sees which sellers you contact.

How fast do sellers answer?

64% of new order requests get a reply; the median reply comes in under 29 minutes.

Sellers read and reply with Premium.

What buyers say

2,859 written reviews in the last 12 months

  • Absolutely the best fast efficient effective and product was perfect delivery on time.

  • negative experience, first he sends the money and then he doesn't send anything

  • She is really kind and always helps to u to feel confortable

Reviews buyers wrote in the last 12 months, all ratings.

Questions

Do I need Premium to contact a seller?

No. Buyers send order requests and read the answers for free. Sellers need Premium to read and answer you.

Who sees my name?

Nobody. Other members see your nickname only.

What if the parcel does not arrive?

Ask her in the order messages first. If she stops answering, report the profile; your review of the order helps the next buyer.

Your cart

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